Dear What-a-Coincidence,
Thank you for this post! I sent it to several family members. My family was CRUSHED at the talk given for my Grandfather who died last spring. My Dad timed how long they actually talked about his Father. Just under 5 minutes!!! The ENTIRE rest of the time was spent, just like this outline shows, giving a "talk". We really felt like they were preaching at all of the family who was no longer in ther organization. I felt lke we were at a "meeting", not a memorial. We were all disgusted! My cousins sat there shaking their heads with disgust! Basically all the Elder did was read the obituary!!! It was especially AMAZING because we all made a point to talk with my (Witness) Grandmother ahead of time before she met with the Elder giving the talk, asking her to please make sure he really TALKED about Grandpa and his life! She assured us she would. My Grandfather was a colorful, loving person,known for making people laugh with all his stories. At family get togethers, we would always end up gathered around his chair for a hour or two of good laughs as he recalled his youth and all the crazy things he and his brothers did while growing up! With his front gold tooth just a gleeming. It would have been so heartwarming to hear them tell all about those times. But NO! They had one AGENDA! And it still is VERY painful to think it could of been so different. Anyway, Thank you for your post.
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty